Helpful Resources

I have provided some helpful resources to help you on your journey towards wellness and healing.  The audio tracks section has excellent recordings for relaxation and meditation.  The suggested readings page is a compilation of my favorite psychology and wellness books; most of the books should be readily accessible from the self-help section of your local book shop or your favorite online book retailer.

Anti-Racism & Racial Justice Resources

Anti-Racism, White Supremacy, & Racial Justice Primers

Resources for White Folks to Learn & Talk About Racism

Racial Trauma & Antiracist Clinical Approaches

Resources for People of Color

Videos & Podcasts

 

Coping with Coronavirus (COVID-19)

Shelter in Place Daily Routine & Schedule


The Shelter-in-Place order and quarantine orders, while critically important to control the spread of COVID-10, have created significant distress and disruptions in most of our lives.  Disruptions in routines can be  particularly stressful because they provide a sense of predictability, structure, and security which is stabilizing in times of uncertainty.   I have created a sample Daily Routine & Schedule which can help you create more structure to your day. 

Coping with COVID-19: Tips & Self-Care


During this unprecedented time of health and economic crisis brought about the Covid-19 pandemic, you have likely found yourself experiencing feelings of stress, anxiety, anger, fear, grief, guilt, or even panic. It is important for you know that these are normal, common and natural responses during a crisis – particularly, infectious disease outbreaks which are extremely distressing due to the high levels of uncertainty and chaos that they can produce.

 

Further, because disease outbreaks don’t have a clear time boundary like other crises  or natural disasters  (ie, surviving an earthquake), they can leave people in an ongoing state of fear, where one is constantly braced for a threat over a long period of time. This kind of extended stress can have a significant toll on your well-being, and for this reason it is essential to find ways to cope in order to keep the stress from becoming overwhelming or incapacitating.  I've provided some tips and strategies that can help you manage your distress and to support yourself during social-distancing and quarantine. (You can download a .PDF handout with this information as well)

Set and Maintain a New Routine 

  • Disruptions in routines can be stressful. Routines provide a sense of predictability, structure, and security which is stabilizing in times of uncertainty.  Create a schedule (here is sample) with set times for waking up, meals, and bedtime, as well as other structured activities (exercise, quiet time, social time, hobbies, etc) to fill your day.

  • If working or taking classes from home, set hours similar to those on worked on site; it can be helpful to designate a specific space in your home for work activities where you can minimize distractions.


Maintain a healthy lifestyle

  • Eat more nutritious, whole foods whenever possible. Processed foods, sugar, and caffeine contribute to disruptions in our mood. Eat regularly to keep your blood sugar stable. Dips in blood sugar levels, which happen when we don’t eat enough food, or after we eat a lot of sugar and then crash, for example also cause mood issues

  • Get enough sleep—it’s probably more than you think you need. You need lots of rest to combat the  intense pressure being exerted on your nervous system during this stressful time.

  • Move your body every day. Physical activity is a great way to move some of our anxious or despairing energy up and out of our bodies. Try an online exercise or yoga class, or go outdoors.


Spend Some Time Outside

  • Spending time outside can lead to significant health benefits. First, being in sunlight helps you get Vitamin D which is important for your bones, blood cells and immune system.

  • Sunlight helps keep your serotonin levels up. This helps raise your energy and keeps your mood calm, positive, and focused.

  • The outdoors helps set your sleep cycle. Cells in your eyes need enough light to get your body’s internal clock working right. 

  • Time in nature can boost your creative problem-solving skills. The more time you spend, the bigger the benefit, but even just "getting out for some air" can nudge your brain into a new thought pattern.


Stay Mentally Active

  • Its important to keep your mind active. Try learning a new hobby or skill, start a new puzzle (soduko, crossword puzzles, or jigsaw puzzle), or challenge yourself to learn a new language.

  • There are many resources online for free online classes, such as coursera.com.

 

Limit Media Coverage

  • You can limit your stress and worry by lessening the time you spend consuming media coverage that is upsetting.

  • Be mindful of news and information is coming from reputable, sources. Gather factual information from credible, trustworthy sources such as the WHO or CDC.
     

Name Your Worries & Limit Triggers

  • Take a moment and identify what you are actually worried about: your health or your family’s? Financial instability? Access to resources?

  • Its likely to be a combination of stressors, but when they are all mashed up together, the stress can be overwhelming or incapacitating.  Identifying them and breaking them can make them for manageable

  • Notice what are some of the triggers to your worries: Checking the news every hour? Spending too time on social media? Consider limiting the amount of time you spend or designating a particular time of day that you use to check news or engage social media.

 

Find Ways to Relax

  • Its important to build in time for relaxation and pleasure  into your daily routine; its less important what relaxing or pleasurable activities you are doing  as you are actively doing something that helps you feel better and distract you from your worries.

  • Consider reading a book, listening to music or a favorite podcast, playing a board or video game, engaging in arts and crafts, creative writing, or trying a new recipe.

  • Find an app that teaches you meditation, try deep breathing or yoga to bring you back to a place of equilibrium.

 

Develop a Practice of Gratitude

  • Expressing and receiving gratitude induces our brain to release neurochemicals (dopamine and serotonin) that are responsible for positive emotions such as happiness and joy, and thus the practice of gratitude can enhance your mood immediately.

  • Simple practices like making time at the end of each day to reflect on what you are thankful for or  sending small tokens and thank you notes can make us feel a lot better.

  • Consider starting a gratitude journal or  a gratitude jar that you add gratitude notes to each day.

 

Stay Connected With Others

  • Psychological research shows that social connection and support are crucial in developing emotional resilience.  Stay connected with your close circle of friends, family, and colleagues by being intentional about reaching out and proactive about scheduling time together through the means that you have available to you. 

  • Build time to help others.  Call others who may be more isolated or help out neighbors who might struggle to access resources by dropping off meals, groceries, medications, mail, etc. at their doorstep. Find other ways to volunteer safely.  

 
 

Relaxation Audio Files

I encourage you to explore these relaxing audio tracks that have guided instructions for deep breathing, mindfulness, meditation, and visualization strategies. By practicing any one of these daily, you will develop relaxation skills that can help you manage stess, anxiety, insomnia and cultivate self-care skills.

 

  • Guided Breathing - Deep Breathing

  • Guided Breathing - Diaphragmatic Breathing

  • Guided Breathing - Mindful Breathing

  • Guided Relaxation - Progressive Muscle Relaxation

  • Guided Meditation - Anxiety & Stress Reduction

  • Guided Meditation - Body Scan

  • Guided Meditation - Loving Kindness

  • Guided Meditation - Loving Kindness (with background music)

  • Guided Meditation - Deep Sleep

  • Guided Meditation - Peaceful Sleep

  • Guided Visualization - Cruise

  • Guided Visualization - Forest

  • Guided Visualization - Peaceful Sanctuary

  • Guided Visualization - Soothing Liquid

     

 

Suggested Readings

Abuse & Trauma:

  • The Courage to Heal by Bass and Davis

  • Trauma and Recovery by J. Herman

  • The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller

  • Toxic Parents by Susan Forward

  • Outgrowing the Pain: A Book for and About Adults Abused As Children by Eliana Gil

  • The Sexual Healing Journey by Wendy Maltz

 

Anxiety:

  • The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook  by Edmund Bourne

  • Coping with Anxiety by Edmund Bourne

  • The 10 Best-Ever Anxiety Management Techniques by Margaret Wehrenberg

 

Couples & Relationships:

  • Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel

  • Partnering: A New Kind of Relationship by Hal Stone and Sidra Stone

  • Hold Me Tight by Susan Johnson

  • Dance of Connection by Harriet Lerner

  • The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz

 

Depression & Self- Esteem

  • Silencing The Self: Women and Depression by Dana Jack

  • Embracing Your Inner Critic by Hal Stone and Sidra Stone

 

Existentialism:

  • Man’s Search of Meaning by Viktor Frankl

  • Existential Psychotherapy  by Irving Yalom

 

Mindfulness:

  • Emotional Alchemy: How the Mind Can Heal the Heart by Tara Bennett-Goleman

  • The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion by  Christopher K. Germer PhD and Sharon Salzberg

 

Psychotherapy & Psychology:

  • Love’s Executioner by Irving Yalom

  • Intimate Journeys by James Bugental

  • The Tao of Psychology by Jean Shinoda Bolen

  • Owning Your Own Shadow: Understanding the Dark Side of the Psyche by Robert Johnson

 

Sexuality:

  • The Guide to Getting It On  by Paul Joannides

  • Sex for One by Betty Dodson

  • The New Male Sexuality by Bernie Zilbergeld

  • Becoming Orgasmic: A Sexual and Personal Growth Program for Women by Julia Heiman & Joseph L

  • The Sexual Healing Journey by Wendy Maltz

 

Women's Issues:

  • Goddesses in Everywoman: A New Psychology of Women by Jean Shinoda Bolen

  • Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls  by Mary Pipher

  • Silencing The Self: Women and Depression by Dana Jack

     

Dr. Sophia Aguirre, Ph.D, CGP, FAGPA

Culturally-Responsive  •  LGBTQ+ Affirming  ​•  Sex-Positive​ ​ •  Poly & Kink-Aware

Dr. Sophia Aguirre, Ph.D, CGP, FAGPA

Licensed Psychologist

Certified Group Psychotherapist

Fellow, American Group Psychotherapy Association

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